Expecting parents make bucket list for unborn son expected to have brief life

Posted at 3:38 PM, Sep 12, 2014
and last updated 2014-09-12 15:39:34-04

Philadelphia, Pa. – Two expecting parents have created a bucket list for their unborn son who is expected to have a very brief life.

Jenna and Dan Haley’s unborn son, Shane, was diagnosed with anencephaly, which is a condition that causes babies to be born without parts of the brain and skull. Many newborns with the condition die soon after birth, WPVI reports.

“Most families wait until their baby is born to start making memories and traveling to places with them,” Dan said. “We understood what it was and knew that our time with our son could be very limited, so we wanted to make the most of the time that we had with him.”

That’s why the Haleys decided to create a bucket list for Shane.

According to WPVI-TV, they came up with a list of places and activities they love and want to share with their son and vowed to do as many as possible during Jenna’s pregnancy.

They have been updating family, friends and others on a Facebook page they created.

More than 150,000 people are following Shane’s adventures.

Jenna and Dan have been so hard at work checking off items on the list that on Sept. 6, they finished it.

Shane, who is due October 12, has gotten a taste of his parents’ favorite activities, from sporting events to beaches to the Big Apple.

Even though his “bucket list” adventures are over, dad Dan says they’re continually working toward their goal of making the most of what time they have.

“We truly value every minute that we have with our son,” he said, “and we thank God every night for blessing us with such a special little boy.”

Here is what was on Shane’s bucket list

  • Cape May County Park Zoo in Cape May, NJ
  • Philadelphia Zoo
  • Adventure Aquarium in Camden, NJ
  • 9/11 memorial in New York City
  • Statue of Liberty
  • Empire State Building
  • Times Square
  • Central Park
  • Strasberg Rail Road near Lancester, PA
  • Beach in Wildwood, NJ
  • Beach in Cape May, NJ
  • Rehoboth Beach in Delaware
  • Dewey Beach in Delaware
  • Phillies game
  • Philadelphia Flyers game
  • Meet the Phillies
  • Meet Flyers (including Claude Giroux)
  • Dad’s Delco league baseball games (championship)
  • Ocean City, MD boardwalk and games (old time photo)
  • Rides at the pier in Wildwood, NJ (including Ferris wheel)
  • Shrine of St. John Neumann in Philadelphia
  • Shrine at St. Rita church in Philadelphia
  • Geno’s Steaks in Philadelphia
  • Spruce Street Harbor Park in Philadelphia
  • Zac Brown Band concert
  • Linvilla Orchards in Media, PA
  • Uncle Jim’s baseball game at Penn State
  • Ashbridge Memorial Park in Bryn Mawr, PA
  • Cape May Lewes Ferry in Lewes, DE
  • Franklin Institute in Philadelphia