Father battling terminal cancer searching for kids’ stolen holiday ornaments

Posted at 12:47 PM, Nov 15, 2018
and last updated 2018-11-15 12:47:51-05

EAST LEROY, Mich. — To Matt O’Dell, family is “everything". He loves spending time with his two kids and his wife Jamie, with whom he celebrated 10 years of marriage in September.

Every year, around this time, they get into the holiday spirit by decorating their Christmas tree with ornaments they have collected throughout the years. However, when Matt went to retrieve them from their storage garage in Albion on Monday, they weren’t there.

“[He] said, ‘Everything is gone,’” Jamie told WXMI. “I said, ‘Everything?' and he said, ‘Yes, everything.’”

They were devastated. Not only had they lost tools like their snowblower and ice shanty, their  mementos had been stolen, including ornaments made by their children and an ornament they bought during their first year of marriage.

A dog ornament they bought while they were stationed in North Carolina was stolen, along with their 7-year-old daughter Claire's first ornament, a spoon decorated with pink crystals.

“My daughter asked, she was like, ‘Well I can’t wait to go ice fishing,” said Matt, fighting back tears while sitting next to his wife on their couch. “Jamie tells her that we can’t go this year.”

Claire broke down when she heard the news, Jamie said.

Jamie now spends time looking for the mementos online. Not just for her daughter’s sake, but for her husband -- who is batting terminal cancer.

“The other stuff can be replaced,” Jamie said. “This may be our last Christmas together as a family.”

Two weeks ago, Matt was released from the hospital  at the University of Michigan after being there for a month receiving treatment for adrenal gland cancer. He was diagnosed with it in August 2016, three years after he was diagnosed with a brain tumor. Now he’s on hospice care, and has difficulty speaking and walking.

“We can’t get any good luck,” Jamie said. “It seems like everything keeps going wrong with the devastation of Matt.”

Then recently they discovered that their 4-year-old son, also named Matthew, has a genetic mutation that is susceptible to cancer. Both Matt’s father and brother had it as well and passed away from cancer.

“It’s hard to wrap my head around all of that,” Jamie said. “Even benefits [are] being denied with our insurance sometimes. And then we run into issues with the VA benefits denying stuff all the way around.”

Jamie’s not giving up looking for the ornaments. When she vented on Facebook about what happened, family, friends and strangers offered to buy her replacements, including snowblowers. She was overwhelmed.

However, the ornaments were priceless.

“We just want our ornaments back,” she said. “They don’t mean anything to anybody else. They mean something to us.”